How to be happy – I know you’re hoping I’m going to be able to wave some magic wand with that statement, but I’m not.
Because only you know how to be happy – you see because we are all different, what makes one happy doesn’t make you happy.
So the first thing you have to know in how to be happy, is stop trying to be like other people that you think are happy. They’re running their own race, they have to deal with different shit to you so don’t try and copy someone else just because they seem to be happy.
The first step and this one will take you a while so that’s all we’re going to concentrate on today, is this. If you don’t know what will make you happy, then remove the things in your life that make you UNHAPPY.
A lot of people just don’t know how to be happy or what will make the happy but I can tell you this, we all know what makes us unhappy. Hate your job? Then it’s up to you to find one that suits you and that you’ll enjoy. Can’t stand your family because they make you miserable, well then, you either have to not let them annoy you or have a lot less / nothing to do with them.
So, make a list of all of those things that make you unhappy and start changing your life so that those things aren’t a big factor in it anymore ….. that’s the first step and it’s a doozy, isn’t it? Some of you are going to have a very long list and others not so much – but that’s what you need to do in your quest to be happy.
Let me know how you go and what you have worked out makes you unhappy.