I just want to talk about relationships today, as most of you know, my Gorgeous Guy and I took a mid-week break last week and I would recommend it for any couple, if you can’t afford a mid-week break take a weekend one – no children, leave them with friends or family.  I personally believe that it is important to any relationship to reconnect, to talk and I mean really talk.  My Gorgeous Guy on our last night suggested we turn off all the lights, rug up warm and sit outside and just look at the stars, it was beautiful, as our eyes became adjusted to the dark the stars just seem to appear more and more and it was a magical moment.

How often do you just stop what you’re doing, turn off to the world and sit there and enjoy your partners company?  We chatted about what our goals are and what we are hoping to achieve, both personally and professionally, it’s really important to do this, if you think that the person you married 10 years ago is the same then there will be problems, hell, neither of you are the same person you were last year!  You really need to truly reconnect, ask what your partner’s goals are, so you know where they’re heading and how you can help and support them and vice versa for your own goals, we are constantly changing and learning and what we thought was important 5 years ago, isn’t necessarily important any more.  It’s important to talk about what what you are both enjoying in life, and what you’re not, you both need to constantly be on the same page and more often than not, life, family, children and work all get in the way and take precedence in our lives, when what we need to remember is that wonderful person you fell in love with is still there and that you need to both remind each other that you’re still in love with them and that they are still important to you.  Reconnect, it’s important.