What is a soulmate? So many people are looking for that elusive partner and wonder what is a soulmate?  How do they recognise them? Unfortunately, so many constantly wonder if there is ‘someone better’ out there for them when they have the most amazing partner, if that is you, just stop and think for a minute that while you’re busy wondering if someone else out there is better for you, you may just lose the one that is perfect for you because you’re not allowing yourself to be fully in the relationship.
Let me tell you that when you find them, that elusive soulmate, it doesn’t mean that you’re going to have the perfect relationship – far from it. Your relationship is not going to be some frigging fairytale with the happily ever after for all time.
You know why? Because your soulmate is that person who is going to pull you right out of your comfort zone and is going to make you think twice about things and help you go and be and do all those things that you’ve been scared to. You know why? Because your soulmate is someone who can see you far better than you can see yourself, they can see where you’re holding yourself back and they can see where you would best shine and they want you to be the best that you can possibly be and that the only person holding you back from achieving those amazing limits is you.
And you know what? You’re not always going to like it. We don’t like looking within ourselves, we like our comfort zones. You’re going to put up blocks, have arguments and disagree with things, that doesn’t mean that they’re not you’re soulmate.
Your soulmate is that person who is going to make you realise that you are a whole person, you’re complete just as you are, you are that perfect chocolate cake with chocolate ganache and you know what you’re soulmate is? They are that dollop of cream with the strawberry right on top. That cake (you) is perfect just as it is, but with that dollop of cream and strawberry (you’re soulmate) it just makes it all that much better.
Your soulmate will be standing in the wings cheering you on, being your number one supporter, bringing you down a peg or two when you need it, they will be so bloody incredibly proud of all of your achievements and like an artist they are there to refine the masterpiece that you already are.
That to me, sums up what a soulmate is, but the important thing to remember here is this, that is what YOU are looking for in your soulmate, that person who is all of those things but that also means YOU have to be their soulmate and all of those things to them as well. Because when you find your soulmate, you need to bloody well make sure that you’re their soulmate as well and that you are there for them, supporting them, cheering them on as they achieve all that they are capable of achieving. You’re the support team for each other and what a dynamic force you will be when you find them.