Wow, it seems ages since I’ve written a blog!  But I’d better get back into my routine’s again.

How many of us are positive about things that happen to us?  Sure, it’s easy when things are going the way that you want them to, but what about when they’re not?

I have a lot of people coming to me wanting to know what they’ve done wrong in a previous life, or what lessons they need to learn, why are these “bad” things always happening to them?

Why?  Because you CHOSE this path, that’s why!  YOU made the decisions that lead you to where you are, no one else.  It is on your shoulders.  We go against our gut instincts and then are unhappy with the way that things turn out.

We pick the same type of partner that isn’t good for us and even though we know it, we still go with it instead of trying to change our behaviour.

Why?  Because it’s easier to stick with what we know, and for some people, it gives them something to complain about!

If you are in a place at this point in time, that you don’t want to be, it’s up to you to make the changes.  Change your habits, change your friends, if you need to, change your employment etc, depending on what the circumstance is, I’m not telling you to pack up your stuff and leave your loving partner and kids because you’re feeling a bit lost or discontent, you have to look within you to see where you can make the change first.

So many people keep looking for things outside of themselves to make them happy, when happiness is within you and being content with where you are and what you have – again, it’s a change in your perception of how you view the world.

So, if you need to, think about where you need to make some changes within yourself, to make the world seem a better place.

Katrina-Jane