Let’s talk about babies that pass over, and I do want to say that this is my opinion from what I have experienced so, if you don’t agree with it, that’s OK.

As I have mentioned previously, before we come to this earth we set out the things that we need to experience in this life, those things set in concrete that we can’t change so that we can learn whatever lessons it is we need to learn from those experiences.  Now, sometimes, this may mean that we have to experience the loss of a child OR we need to be that child and we can’t do that on our own.   We either have to put up our hand to say, ‘yes, we’ll be the parents’ or we put up our hand to say ‘yes, I’ll be the child’ as hard as that is to comprehend for us here on earth.

Sometimes there are no lessons to be learnt at all, it is just something that we had to experience to understand what it is like, so that we are able to help others as spirit guides when we are in the spirit world, helping us mere mortals here on earth.   Other times it makes us stronger or not, it can make a relationship stronger or have it fall apart, there is a growth and change within you that happens that someone who hasn’t lost a child will never know nor understand.

As spirits we don’t grow ‘older’ just more experienced as we keep living the lives that we need to live so a babies spirit doesn’t grow into an adult in the spirit world because it’s a spirit, they will come through as different ages to me, because it helps them get a message across but they are spirit, they don’t have a human body, they don’t age like we do.  For instance they will show themselves to us in a way that we can understand but that doesn’t mean that is how they constantly are.

Yes, a baby’s spirit will come back to earth – sometimes as another child of yours, or a grandchild or it could wait until the next lifetime where they will be your partner – they won’t always be a child or relative of yours through our lifetimes.  I have also found when someone has lost a baby that if it isn’t to come back in this lifetime, it will stay around to see the family grow and be there as a spirit guide for you or other children that you have and when everyone connected to this spirit has passed over, it will be ready to live it’s next life.