I really get disheartened when I read the comments by women about other women. So this one is for you ladies:-
Congratulations, if you have decided to be a stay at home mum. That’s hard work! You obviously have to balance the budget carefully to be able to do that but you’re more than willing to do it and I think you’re bloody awesome!
Congratulations, if you’re a mum who has to go back to work after having kids – mummy guilt’s a killer isn’t it? But you going back to work is the best thing for your family and I think you’re bloody awesome.
Congratulations, if you’re a woman who has decided not to have kids, sheesh it must be such a burden to have to tell people that and then cope with the snide comments about not having kids, good on you for being true to you – but you know what? I think you’re bloody awesome.
Congratulations to the woman who can’t have children, it’s a killer seeing all your friends having babies and knowing that you can’t, but I bet you are going to be the best Aunty anyone could have and you’re friends and family will love you because you love and look after their kids and I think that you’re bloody awesome.
Congratulations to the mum’s who breastfeed, who go through cracked nipples or mastitis, who’s boobs turn into concrete when bub sleeps through their first night … you’re bloody awesome.
Congratulations to the mum’s who bottle feed, you’re allowing dad’s to have that bonding time and you are doing what is best for you and your baby – don’t forget that you’re bloody awesome as well.
Congratulations to the mum who chose a natural birth – it’s an amazing experience and bloody painful but you did it either with or without drugs and you’re so bloody awesome.
Congratulations to the mum who decided to have a cesarean – the best option for her and bub – it’s not easy being restricted after having one but you’re just so bloody awesome.
Congratulations to the mum who manages to work, clean and juggle a household it’s not easy but you do it and I have to say, you’re bloody awesome.
Congratulations to the mum who has a house cleaner – it’s great to see that you know what you can and can’t cope with and that you delegate tasks to those that do it better – I think you’re bloody awesome.
Congratulations to the mum who makes all the kids lunches and healthy treats, you obviously love food and want the best for your child – you’re bloody awesome.
Congratulations to the mum who had to swing through McDonalds to give the kids breakfast, I know you feel guilty doing it but at least they got fed, sometimes mornings can be a bummer can’t they? Don’t worry, you’re awesome too.
Congratulations to the mum who has gone back to study – well, done, it’s never easy to balance family and your own needs but you’re doing really well – you’re bloody awesome.
Congratulations to the woman who goes to the gym every day, you obviously want to keep fit and look after yourself and so you’re bloody awesome.
Congratulations to the woman who doesn’t go to the gym and barely gets time to exercise – doesn’t mean that you’re not awesome either.
Congratulations, to the woman who is so overwhelmed and just feel she can’t cope anymore, yet still gets out of bed for the kids to make sure they are alright – you’re bloody awesome as well.
Congratulations to the woman who buys the latest fashion and always looks like a model, you’re amazing being able to put outfits together like that, I think you’re bloody awesome.
Congratulations to the woman that wears ‘whatever’ I think you’re just great because you’re so comfortable with yourself and to not care what others think – you’re bloody awesome.
Now, I’m sure I’ve left some out and I apologise – But I would like to think that you get the drift. So, please stop being judgmental on other women – you know nothing of who they really are. Let’s be supportive and caring with each other and ourselves.