People in our western culture don’t like talking about dying.

Well, maybe in an abstract way, such as ‘dying with dignity’ or ‘I don’t want to be in a nursing home when I die’ kind of thing.

Far too often it’s like the elephant in the room, we all know that it’s going to happen but no-one wants to acknowledge it.

I believe that it’s something that we should all be open and honest about.

Why?

Because when our loved ones know how / where we want to die and what we want our funerals to be like, if you want one at all, it takes a huge stress off them.

It’s also a great time to talk about what kind of sign you’re going to give them so that they know you’re ok.

Why am I bringing this up?

Because I just read an article about a beautiful place called Wedgetail Retreat, it’s near Murwillumbah, in NSW, Australia.

It’s totally run by volunteers, the only people paid are the nurses.

It’s pretty well funded by the local Op shop, plus of course donations.

And it’s a beautiful place where those who are in the last stages of life can go to die.

Where they can do and eat what they want.

Family can visit and stay and you can take your pet with you as well.

It’s set in the beautiful countryside and the article that I was reading was saying how quite often when someone dies the kookaburra’s sing their chorus.

There’s a resident dog that is a solace companion for those who are losing a loved one, he just knows when someone is dying and comes along and rests a paw on you.

I LOVE this idea!

What a beautiful place and way to die.

Not stuck in a hospital or nursing home room attached to machines, but eating whatever the hell you want and enjoying the beauty of nature.

I beg you, even if you’re not sick with a terminal illness, let your loved ones know your wishes.

They, obviously, don’t have to follow them, but at least they’ll know what you want.

Better yet, if you’re wanting a funeral, organise it!  Write everything down about you so your family don’t have to put something together.

Select the photos you want used.

Talk to your loved ones and let them talk to you.  We all know that dying isn’t just for the elderly.

It’s the little things, like I know that my son wants his organs donated if they’re able to be, and he knows that I think the same way for myself.

Of course, I hope I don’t ever have to make that decision for my son, but at least I know what he’d like.

It reduces a lot of stress and can actually be a time of connection with each other.

Don’t fear dying, it’s going to happen to us regardless.

Make it something that is just a natural part of life.

Love & light

Katrina x