One thing I have learnt during the years as a clairvoyant and I also feel I am somewhat a spiritual counsellor as well, not everyone is wanting to know the future, so many of us just want to feel content and settled or to try and work out what our ‘purpose’ is in this lifetime. The thing is, everyone has their own stuff/baggage, and that stuff/baggage is neither more nor less than anyone else’s. The difference is how we each individually carry all that stuff around. The difference in the perception of why someone seems to have it ‘easy’ or not going through as much as anyone else, is because some of us, own it, accept that it is there and then do our best to work through it, we let go of what we cannot change and we also take responsibility for ourselves and our actions and words.
Or there are those of us that blame others for their stuff, and then they project their perceived problems and issues at others, instead of owning their stuff they turn around and make everyone else responsible for their stuff. They continually blame others for where they are as an individual instead of owning it and by doing so, they keep forging ahead in life creating a path of destruction not just for them, but for everyone around them.
It is your life. Yours and no-one else’s. The responsibility starts with you, no-one else can do it for you, people can be there to help you and guide you but as the saying goes the teacher can lead you to the door but you have to step through it.
If you’re not happy with your life then it is up to you to change the way that you are doing things, change the way that you view things, be open to others opinions, be willing to listen, be willing to grow, if you keep doing the same thing day after day why would you expect anything to come out differently? If you have those negative people around you, sometimes you need to give them a swift kick up the butt and tell them to get over themselves and most importantly don’t enable them, don’t let them continually go on and on about the same things. I’m NOT talking about people suffering depression or grieving, that’s a completely different thing, I’m talking about those sad sack people who are always ‘woe is me’ types. Don’t put up with their ‘stuff’ it’s theirs, not yours.