I know that this is going to disappoint a lot of you greatly to hear this, but I am human.  I know, I know, it’s a bit of a shock but after the comments that were made on my blog yesterday, I just felt that I should clear a few things up.

Firstly, I would like to state that these are my own personal views and I in no way am pointing a finger at anyone in particular I just felt that some misconceptions should be put to rest in general.  The following is how I do things and what I believe and what I feel, if you don’t agree with it, that is OK I’m not here to persuade you to believe in anything, I’m just trying to let you know about me, who I am and where I am coming from.

I DO NOT know everything.  Nor have I ever said that I do.  Whenever anyone has a reading with me I make sure they know that I only know what I am given at any point in time and that is what I give them.  Sometimes I just can’t answer a question and I will say so.

I MAKE MISTAKES – yes, a shock again, but as mentioned I am a human, when I give readings I don’t have an angel standing next to me dictating word for word what I should say, I get physical sensations, I may hear a word, a sentence, see a picture or a movie and I have to try and work out what it is that I am being given.  I believe that the information I get is right, but how it comes out of my mouth might not be, therefore, when having a reading with me, I am quite OK with you saying that it doesn’t make sense.

I DO NOT tell you the things you want to hear, I tell you what I am told to tell you, so it is quite possible that you don’t WANT to hear it but that you NEED to hear it.  Sometimes you need to go away and digest the information given to get some clarity around it.

I DO NOT make ‘stuff’ up – again, I give you what I get, I’m not going to tell you that you’re going to win lotto if I’m not told to pass that on.

I CAN NOT make someone who has passed over ‘come through’ to me it is no different to when you ring someone, they either answer the phone or they don’t.  Sometimes they come through strongly, sometimes vaguely and sometimes not at all.  It is beyond my control.

I ALWAYS try and make the person having a reading comfortable and relaxed, I do not dress in purple flowing robes wearing a turban looking into a crystal ball.  That is just not me. 

I am human. I get angry, cry, laugh, get hurt and tired.  

I sometimes get overwhelmed with the information I am given and come home and cry on my husband’s shoulder from the trauma that some people have had to go through, but while giving the reading I put on a brave front and give as much compassion as I can.

I take my responsibility in giving readings very seriously and know that for some people I am seen as their only hope in contacting a loved one but at the same time, I won’t let people use me as a crutch to get through their lives. 

I believe I am here to help people on their path, not to live it for them, we all have to make our own decisions in our lives and then live with those decisions.

There is only so much I can give and it can be overwhelming when people just want more and more of me and I do my utmost to help where and when I can.

 What I am trying to say is:

 I am just like you.