I want you to remember this – yes you, remember this!  That no matter what you do, no matter what you try, there will always be people that simply will not like you.  The world is filled with these people.

They just aren’t going to like you!

Even so, it’s important not to concentrate on this. Instead, remember that the world is also full of people who are going to love you so fiercely that it hurts.  And these are the people you want to treasure.  They are the ones that love you and have your back, they’re YOUR People.  They are your tribe!

So, please don’t waste time and energy on those people that just won’t like you.  Don’t try and convince them that you do have value, because they simply don’t care, nor do they want to. They aren’t going to listen to what you have to say and honestly they don’t have to.

Let them walk away and down their own path.  Don’t try and make them see that they would be better with you on yours.  Doing that, expending all that energy on someone who isn’t going to like you, is just no good for your emotional health.

It’s ok for them not to like you.

You’re not for them and they’re not for you.

That’s how it should be.

You are simply not their cup of tea and they are not yours.  So, stop it!  Stop trying to sell yourself to them!  Stop jumping through hoops trying to get them to like you, or appreciate you, or to understand that value of your worth. It’s just not worth the effort.

Be ever so polite and just wave them off and out of your life as you move away from theirs.  What you want to do is look for someone that does appreciate you and your worth and share your path with them.  Those people that can see what you have to share with the world.

Be proud of who you are.

But out of everything I have just said to you, the most important thing to remember is this – “you aren’t everyone’s cup of tea and that’s OK’.

Katrina-Jane